Starting a new family
On Wednesday the 22nd of June Dylano and I left for a holiday to spent with my mum and dad.
It has been a turbulent year so I was ready to relax and enjoy three weeks of my free time and spent quality time with my son in warm Spain.
It was really good to be up there, the weather was awsome, 30 -35 deg Celsius and we went to the beach every day.
D enjoyed being on the beach all day, playing around with his sand cars and building sand casltles with 'opa' and me.
Before I went to Spain, I didn't felt I needed some thing, something like a woman in my life.
I enjoyed my life the way I have lived for the last couple of years, it turns out to be a daily routine.
Being with my mum and dad was good on one hand on the other hand it didn't really fit into my thought and feelings I had at that moment.
Most of the times I went out during the night and tried to get so 'pissed' so I was able to get the joy out of life. I know it sounds pathetic, but it might be the time to change a habit, think about your life...
Any way, on the 2nd of July I did the same thing we went out with the whole family and spent the time in the centre of Benidorm, drinking coffee and walked around, some shopping.
I felt I really needed to go out that night.
So I went home, changed clothes and went to the bus-stop, it was around 23.30 pm and that's the time people are going out in Spain.
I stopped in the centre and walked up to cafe de Kroon, on my way I looked at happy couples, families and I knew that one day I will be happy again too...
I turned around the corner of Calle Ibiza and I noticed one of my dutch 'Spanish' friends talking to a girl.
"hey, how are you doing??? .... cu later in the kroon" and passed on.
Just a couple of seconds later I heard some on shouting at me: Hola Guapo!!!
Didn't paid attetntion to that at the moment, but when I realized it might be worth it to have a look, I went back and looked who was saying that to me.
It was/is the most wonderful person I have ever met in my life, this young woman coming from the US/Boston.
Beautiful blue pure eyes, gorgeous smile and a very strong personality, I was able to mention that right-a-way. Kimmy
That is her name and some one you will never forget, we had the most greatest time during the rest of my holiday in Spain.
This year is different, I felt it is going to be different, we spent 12 days together, she was working and living in Spain and actually planned to go back to Boston (US)
It is not really necessary to tell you guys what happened those 12 days in details.
Kimmy stayed in Spain when D and I left, but we knew for sure it will not last for long.
We planned Kimmy to move over to Amsterdam.
And finally on the 28th of July Kimmy moved from Spain to Amsterdam, we are living together and we are doing great.
Of course we had some struggling in the beginning, culture differences, but we are able to mange that TOGETHER!!!!
TOGETHER!!!!!!! again.
We are builiding up our own family and will do our most best to make everything work out TOGETHER....
I love my bitch